The "secret" to internal validation isn't caring less about what others think.
It's about becoming the person who knows who they truly are, regardless of what others think.
When you imagine no longer caring about what others think, do you:
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Fear that you'll be delusional and arrogant -- thinking that you're better than you actually are?
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Imagine being unlikable and alone forever?
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Cringe at the thought of having to accept everything you don't like about yourself?
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Feel confused about who you'd be, what you'd like, or want?
If so... you're in the right place.
You don't have a "caring too much" problem.
(The world needs more caring people!)
You have a self-identity problem.
And self-identity is the solution.
If you feel uncertain about who you truly are,
you'll constantly seek reassurance from others.
I know what it feels like to feel like something's missing.
I spent my whole life trying to fill that inner discomfort.
Then I finally found self-identity work.
Once I saw who I'd be if I wasn't relying on external validation, I became much more certain in myself... and I was excited to become my true self.
And that's what internal validation is: Knowing how to enjoy being yourself.
It's the only thing that alleviated my deep insecurities and freed me from relying on romantic partners and people-pleasing.
And now it's my passion to help others do the same.
Every client's journey is unique, but there are 3 main things that are required for deep, lasting change.
Internal validation requires 3 things:
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Know who truly you are
In order to build a strong self-identity, you have to have a strong inner foundation -- a deep knowing -- of who you truly are.
Hint: If you don't like the idea of your true self, or feel conflicted and confused about it... you haven't met yourself fully yet!
Years of seeking external validation has covered up your truth, but it's absolutely still there inside.
I'll ask you a special set of questions that will uncover who you truly are beneath all the pressures and people-pleasing, so you'll know exactly what you need in order to live with internal validation.
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Know who you truly want to be
Most clients have no idea who they'd want to be, if they took external validation out of the picture.
If it was just about your happiness, your whims, your dreams... who would you want to be?
Getting clear on your ideal self is like building the walls of your self-identity.
This is where I'll continue we separate the programming from your past, from the desires of your soul.
We'll know you're doing it right when you feel excited, relieved, and alive while realizing what you truly want.
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Know how to change yourself
Now that you've custom built your self-identity "home" based on your specs and truth... it's time to move in.
This is where I'll teach you how to shift your identity from the inside-out (no longer relying solely on other people and things).
You'll not only understand what it means to be yourself, but to also enjoy being yourself... which is what internal validation is all about.
The more you live from your true identity, the less you'll need external validation.
It'll just be the toppings on the beautiful cake that you own.
How it works:
1hr private coaching calls: We sit down on Zoom for an hour every week.
6 months: The perfect amount of time to not only learn a new way of being, but make into a habit that becomes your new identity.
Upon completion: You’ll feel stronger, happier, and more aligned within yourself than ever before — and you’ll no longer seek excessively from others.
You'll have an exact process that you can use for the rest of your life to build an amazing relationship with yourself, and approach anything that happens with self-love.
Your investment: $3,300
Who is this program for?
This is for you if...
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You've been doing inner work (such as self-help & therapy) to address any trauma that's been holding you back, and you're ready to move forward and focus on creating a new future.
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You're ready to let go of trying to manage other people's emotions and are ready to prioritize your own.
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You're willing to think outside the box and explore new ways of being.
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You want to experience self-love and inner alignment, and drastically change the way you show up in your relationships and life.
This is NOT for you if...
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You are struggling mentally / emotionally in a way that would be better supported by a mental health counselor.
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You want quick-fix life hacks rather than deep lasting transformation.
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You aren't willing to think in new ways and try new things.
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You believe someone or something else needs to change first in order for you to change.
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You are looking for a place to vent or receive surface-level validation, rather than honestly & courageously sharing your emotions and inner struggles.
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