You may think that self-love doesn't matter in your relationship, but the truth is that how you secretly feel inside greatly affects the quality of love and connection you're able to have with others.

Basically my self-relationship was like being with a hyper-critical, nagging, bullying, tiger-mom of sorts… which makes complete sense why I couldn’t feel self-love. So each time I noticed myself being this way, I told myself: “Hey, that’s the last thing I need right now. That makes me feel worse and doesn’t improve anything. I need a seriously supportive friend right now who actually cares.” And then, begrudgingly, I’d make an effort to change what I was saying to myself. It wasn’t abo

Who better to have as a life partner, than me? The person who shares my aesthetics, my dreams, my goals, my tastes, my interests, my personality, preferences, and perspectives? It had nothing to do with how perfect she looked, how sexy she was by societal standards, or how much she fit into anyone else’s “type”.