From self-abandonment to
feeling at home within yourself
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When you feel at home with yourself...
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You are comfortable with your own personality, preferences, and identity... even when you don't quite fit in.
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You wake up having your own self-love and inner-wellbeing -- you no longer scramble to meet a daily quota of external validation.
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Relationships enhance the way you already feel inside, rather than being the only thing that can save you from yourself.
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You stand up for yourself from a place of love for yourself & others, instead of hurt or anger.
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โYour life is unmistakably, fully your own -- not just going through the motions of who you think you have to be.
When you come home to yourself, you stop trying to desperately find "home" in someone else.
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You have your own inner security, confidence, and wellbeing... and take it where ever you go.โ
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The reason why self-love practices don't work isn't because there's too much wrong with you.
(I promise. I felt the exact same way.)
It's because you have to come home to yourself first, in order to then feel love towards yourself.
That's when everything falls into place.
My Homecoming Framework simplifies everything you need to do to actually come home to yourself...so you can then feel self-love, have happier relationships, and create a fulfilling life that feels good to you.
The Phases of Homecoming
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Reclaim your home
First you'll re-claim yourself as your own home.
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We'll clean out any "ghosts" from your past that are still haunting your house.
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You'll set strong, loving boundaries and chase out any "squatters" on your property.
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We'll assess the remnants self-abandonment without shame, and get clear on what feeling at home with yourself means to you.
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You'll feel inner relief and remembrance of returning to yourself.
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Deep Clean
In this phase, we'll sort and clean up outdated mindsets, old attitudes, and behaviors that no longer serve you.
We uncover core truths that have been buried throughout the years and restore them to their former shining glory.
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As we clear up all the inner conflict and confusion, you'll โ
have a deeper understanding of yourself, feeling more clear and organized.
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Renovate
This phase is when we'll lovingly demolish old patterns of self-doubt and install beautiful new habits, perspectives, and self-concepts.
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We'll fortify the pillars of your true identity so that your home has a strong foundation.
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This is when you'll see your inner change being reflected in your outer life.
You'll experience more emotional ease and greater wellbeing, especially in areas that once triggered you.โโ
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Make it your own
This is when you'll really experience the full impact of a happier, expanded self-relationship.
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You'll be feeling self-love as you source safety and connection from the inside-out.
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There'll be a remarkable shift in your personality from one of anxiousness and doubt, to being centered and full of life.
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You no longer feel the urge to people-please, cling, or perform for validation -- you'll finally be free.
Feeling more love & happiness isn't about doing more on the outside.
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It's about creating home on the inside.
How it works:
1hr private coaching calls: We sit down on Zoom for an hour every week. In the first half of the call we'll discuss what's going on for you, get clear on your most important challenges, and celebrate your wins. The second half is for coaching, in which you'll be given tools & guidance towards building a closer relationship with yourself.
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6 months: The perfect amount of time to not only learn a new way of being, but make into a habit that becomes your new identity.โ You'll be taken through the 4 step Homecoming process to create a strong, loving, unshakable relationship with yourself.โ
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Upon completion: You’ll feel stronger, happier, and more comfortable within yourself than ever before — you’ll no longer seek excessively from others.
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You'll have an exact process that you can use for the rest of your life to build an amazing relationship with yourself, and approach anything that happens with self-love.
Who is this program for?
This is for you if...
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You've been doing inner work (such as therapy) to address any trauma that's been holding you back, and you're ready to move forward and focus on creating a new future.
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You're ready to let go of trying to manage other people's emotions and are ready to prioritize your own.
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โYou're willing to think outside the box and explore new ways of being.
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โYou want to experience self-love and inner alignment, and drastically change the way you show up in your relationships and life.
This is NOT for you if...
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You are struggling mentally / emotionally in a way that would be better supported by a mental health counselor.
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You want quick-fix life hacks rather than deep lasting transformation.
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You aren't willing to think in new ways and try new things.
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You believe someone or something else needs to change first in order for you to change.
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You are looking for a place to vent or receive surface-level validation, rather than honestly & courageously sharing your emotions and inner struggles.
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